English 92 Bandur Means..

I believe that Bandur means that its easier to play along with the stereotype that men have for women because that's the man dream and every woman wants to be accepted by men.  When she says "better for all women if you don't. " because most men want some beautiful skinny women with a nice body and we weren't all made in that image she telling women to keep there self respect you don't have to change to be accepted.  What Bandur means is very useful and uplifting to women.